The Oak Tree

One of history’s most famous confrontations began with a single swing.

Around the year 723, in what is now central Germany, an English missionary named Boniface walked up to an oak tree believed to be sacred by local pagan tribes and prepared to cut it down.

But to many local Germanic tribes, this oak was associated with Donar, the god later known as Thor. It was a place surrounded by tradition and fear. Many believed that anyone who damaged the tree would face divine punishment.

Boniface knew what people believed. The crowd watching knew it too. That was precisely why he chose the tree.

According to tradition, Boniface took an axe to the oak while people watched. The crowd waited to see what would happen. The tree was cut down, but the punishment they feared never came.

Whether every detail happened exactly as later accounts describe is debated by historians. What is clear is that the story survived for more than 1,300 years.

The tree was never really the point.

Few of us will ever face anything quite like Boniface’s oak tree. Instead, we carry smaller fears. A difficult conversation. An overdue apology. A project that remains stuck in the planning stage. A habit we already know is holding us back.

These things often stay in the background of our lives like the wrong soundtrack playing beneath a scene. We hear it so often that we stop noticing it. Eventually, we start believing it belongs there. We spend more time imagining the consequences than facing them.

Fear can look enormous from a distance, yet many fears lose their power the moment we stop walking around them and finally walk through them.

Let’s keep learning the saints’ way—day by day.

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Saint Lioba and Saint Boniface: A Different Kind of Love

Their closeness in mission was unmatched—yet in the end, it took a turn only true spiritual love can explain.

Most love stories talk about a woman trusting a man. But here, the story is reversed. Bishop Boniface—later known as the Apostle of Germany—placed his deepest trust in a woman of God, Sister Lioba.

In the 700s, Bishop Boniface carried the Gospel across Germany, but he knew he could not do it alone. He called Sister Lioba from her convent in England and asked her to guide the women’s communities with wisdom and prayer. She became a leader, teacher, and mother to many. And to Bishop Boniface, she was more than a helper—she was his most trusted friend. He once said she was “beloved above all others.”

Before his final mission to Friesland in 754, where he would be martyred, Bishop Boniface made a personal request to her: “When your time comes, may you rest at my side in Fulda.” Fulda was the monastery he had founded in 744, and where he himself would be laid to rest. It sounded almost like a romance, but it was not. It was something higher—a bond of spiritual love, rooted in God and mission.

Yet when Sister Lioba’s time came in 782, she refused that wish. Out of humility, she said she did not deserve to rest beside a martyr. So she was laid to rest close to him, but not at his side. Their tombs stood apart.

It feels like a sad ending—two who wished to remain together, yet separated in death. And still, it is also a happy ending. Because their closeness was never about the grave. It was about God, about trust, about a love that is not romantic, but eternal. Romantic love ends at the grave. Spiritual love does not. It goes beyond. It lasts forever.

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