The Power Not to Use Our Power

Real strength can be heard in what we choose to leave unsaid and undone.

Power is not only for presidents, rich people, or people in high positions.

As parents, bosses, teachers, or simply people others trust, we all hold some kind of power. Money gives us choices. Knowledge helps us decide. Popularity gives us influence. Even a phone can hurt someone’s name in minutes.

The question is what we do with what we have.

We often think power is shown by using it: giving orders, fighting back, punishing someone, exposing a secret, or getting the last word.

But power also includes knowing when not to use it.

We can embarrass someone, but choose not to. We can take revenge, but don’t. We can use someone’s weakness against them, but refuse to.

We can be in charge without making life harder for others.

That is knowing where to stop.

Musicians know this. Just because we can play more notes doesn’t mean we should. The notes we leave out also shape the music.

Jesus showed this clearly.

He healed people, calmed a storm, and amazed those around Him. He used His power to help people, not to become rich, feared, or above everyone else.

When He was arrested and one of His disciples fought back with a sword, Jesus stopped him. He said He could call on His Father for more than twelve legions of angels.

He had the power to stop His enemies by force.

He chose not to.

Jesus also warned His disciples about rulers who use their position to control others. His answer was short:

“Not so with you.”

For Him, being in charge meant serving, not controlling people.

We may never rule a country or command an army, but these choices still come our way. Someone may depend on us. A person who hurt us may later need our help. We may know a secret that could ruin someone.

What we choose says a lot about us.

Jesus had the power to strike the loudest note.

He knew when not to play it.

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