A Father and a Writer

A saint’s other side.

Thomas More lived in England during the late 1400s and early 1500s, a time of kings, castles, and growing interest in learning and scholarship. Born in London in 1478, he became a lawyer, writer, government official, husband, and father.

He was known for his sense of humor and often made jokes, even at his own expense.

Despite holding one of the highest offices in England, Thomas sometimes climbed onto the roof of his house to look at the stars. He enjoyed conversation and took a keen interest in the education of his children. What set him apart from many of his contemporaries was the way he educated his daughters. In the early 1500s, many people saw little reason to educate girls beyond the basics. Thomas disagreed. He wanted his daughters to learn languages, literature, and other subjects normally reserved for boys.

One story involves his daughter Margaret, who was especially close to him. When Thomas became Lord Chancellor, one of the highest positions in England, someone asked whether she was proud of her father. Her response suggested that little had changed at home. He might have been Lord Chancellor at work, but he was still the same father when he came home.

Many of Thomas’s letters contain jokes and playful remarks. Even during his imprisonment in the Tower of London, flashes of wit still appeared in his writing.

His Catholic faith shaped every part of his life, including the decisions that eventually brought him into conflict with King Henry VIII.

During the reign of King Henry VIII, Thomas refused to support the king’s break with the Catholic Church and would not accept the king’s claim to religious authority. He was imprisoned in the Tower of London and in 1535 was executed on the king’s orders.

With the final cadence, his daughter Margaret lost a father. England lost a statesman. The world lost a writer. God welcomed a saint.

Let’s keep learning the saints’ way—day by day.

⌨ ᴛʸᵖⁱⁿᵍ ᴏᵘᵗ ᵒᶠ ᵗʰᵉ ʙˡᵘᵉ ᵈᵃʳᵉᵐ ᵐᵘˢⁱᶜ ᵇˡᵒᵍ

Acoustic Thinking • Darem Placer

What Children Learn at Home

The lessons children carry into adulthood often begin with the everyday moments at home.

Parents teach every day, even during ordinary moments.

Children learn from rules. They learn from words. But most of all, they learn from what they see.

A home quietly teaches lessons long before children are old enough to explain them.

Like a song heard every day, those lessons often stay with them long after the words are forgotten.

• Children who are listened to often feel that their thoughts matter.

• Children who receive both love and healthy boundaries often feel safe and secure.

• Children who are constantly compared to others may feel they are never good enough.

• Children who are praised only for success may think they must always win to be valued.

• Children who are trusted with responsibilities often become more confident.

• Children who are shamed for their feelings may learn to keep their feelings hidden.

• Children who are encouraged after mistakes often become more willing to try again.

• Children who grow up around constant conflict may become anxious.

• Children who are treated with fairness and respect often learn to treat others the same way.

• Children who see parents admit mistakes often learn to be honest and accountable.

• Children who live in fear of punishment may learn to hide the truth.

• Children who receive little emotional warmth may struggle to express their feelings.

• Children who are overprotected may doubt their ability to handle problems on their own.

• Children who witness unhealthy relationships may carry those habits into future relationships.

• Children who experience emotional neglect may struggle to feel the closeness they missed growing up.

No parent does everything perfectly.

The goal is not to get everything right. The goal is to create a home where children can grow, learn, make mistakes, and know they are loved.

⌨ ᴛʸᵖⁱⁿᵍ ᴏᵘᵗ ᵒᶠ ᵗʰᵉ ʙˡᵘᵉ ᵈᵃʳᵉᵐ ᵐᵘˢⁱᶜ ᵇˡᵒᵍ