People keep saying, “Don’t compare yourself with others.”
But you know, sometimes comparing helps—if you know how to do it right.
Like if you can’t dance that well, try looking at someone who can’t even stand. Suddenly you’ll feel thankful you’ve got two legs that still move to the beat. It changes the whole story in your head. Gratitude kicks in, quietly.
And when you want to get better, don’t stare at the pros yet. They’re too far ahead—you’ll just feel tired. Look at someone just one level higher. Someone whose moves you can almost reach. That kind of comparing—it kind of pulls you forward, doesn’t push you down.
And it’s not really about competing. It’s more like tuning yourself, slowly. You adjust a bit here, a bit there, until one day you sound better than yesterday.
So yeah, compare. But don’t crush yourself. Compare to stay thankful. Compare to keep growing. Compare to remind yourself you’re still dancing.

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