When to Shut Up

I used to think silence was weakness. It’s knowing when our voice will only add to the noise.

Funny how we talk a lot, yet hear so little. We try to fill silence with words, thinking it makes us understood, when sometimes it only makes the noise louder. And while the world keeps shouting to be heard, we forget how powerful quiet can be.

Because silence isn’t weakness. It’s the strength to stay gentle when words could hurt.

We need to shut up

When secrets are meant to stay sacred.
Not everything trusted to us belongs to the world—silence is respect.

When someone’s grieving.
We don’t fix pain with words—we comfort with presence.

When someone’s still talking.
We don’t always need to jump in just to be heard. Listening all the way through is sometimes the kindest thing we can do.

When we don’t know what we’re talking about.
Silence saves us from pretending to be wise when we’re really not.

When the talk turns cruel.
Some jokes aren’t funny when kindness is missing.

When anger starts speaking for us.
Words born in heat never age well.

When truth will come out in time.
Let silence carry it until honesty can stand by itself.

When gossip starts to sound fun.
Spreading it doesn’t make us wise—it makes us part of someone’s fall.

When our pride starts speaking louder than truth.
It’s better to pause than to prove.

When our words start to wound.
Sometimes we hurt people not because we mean to, but because we don’t stop soon enough.

When our conscience tells us to.
The world’s already loud—heaven still speaks in quiet hearts.

I guess I just learned these things the hard way… because I Learned to Shut Up.

I Learned to Shut Up • Darem Placer

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Play Acoustically Amid the Noise and the Haste includes I Learned to Shut Up

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The Secret Side of Mental Health

Mental health hides behind smiles—something we feel but never fully understand.

World Mental Health Day • October 10

Most people talk about mental health like they understand it, but truth is, no one really knows what it is—not even the one who has it. It hides behind smiles, behind “I’m fine,” behind the noise of everyday life. It’s the quiet that doesn’t feel peaceful, the laughter that feels rehearsed. It’s there when you can’t explain why you feel empty, or why a simple morning feels heavy.

Mental health isn’t always about sadness or madness. Sometimes it’s just confusion. Sometimes it’s silence. Sometimes it’s not knowing what’s wrong but feeling something is.

And that’s okay. Because maybe mental health isn’t something we’re supposed to understand—maybe it’s something we’re supposed to care for. Like how we water plants without seeing the roots, or how we trust music without knowing every note.

So be gentle—with yourself, and with others. Every mind holds its own Secretsfragile thoughts that only love can calm. And in the end, that’s what it means to give love (Dare Amore), even to what we don’t fully understand.

Secrets • Darem Placer
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