Saint Teresa of Ávila: How She Prayed

She prayed not with rules but with love—teaching that silence, honesty, and friendship lead to God.

Saint Teresa of Ávila (1515–1582), known in religion as Saint Teresa of Jesus, was a Carmelite nun and mystic who turned ordinary prayer into friendship with God. She entered the Carmelite convent in 1535 and spent nearly fifty years deepening the life of prayer she later taught to the world. For her, prayer was not about duty—it was about love. She believed that when you pray, you don’t just speak to God—you walk with Him.

The Five Principles of Her Prayer Life

💬 1. Prayer as Friendship

Prayer,” she said, “is an intimate sharing between friends.” For Sister Teresa, prayer wasn’t about sounding holy or saying perfect words. It was about being honest before Someone who already loves you. You can come to God tired, confused, or quiet—He listens to it all.

🌿 2. Mental Prayer — Talking with Jesus Beside You

This was her way. Sister Teresa didn’t worry about technique—she simply loved. She would imagine Jesus sitting beside her and spoke to Him as a friend. Sometimes she talked, sometimes she listened, and sometimes she simply sat in silence, aware that He was near.

🔥 3. Silence that Becomes Fire

Sister Teresa taught that true prayer begins with words, deepens in silence, and ends in love. At first, you speak. Then you listen. And finally, words fade away—not because God has left, but because His presence fills everything. That silence is not emptiness; it is fire.

🏰 4. The Soul as a Castle

She imagined the soul as a castle with seven rooms. The outer rooms are filled with noise and distraction. The inner rooms grow quieter, brighter, closer to peace. At the center is God Himself—where love and will are one. Every prayer is a journey through those rooms until your heart reaches His.

❤️ 5. Keep Praying Even When It’s Dry

There were days Sister Teresa felt nothing—no light, no comfort. But she stayed. “It’s not thinking much but loving much that pleases God,” she said. Even when prayer feels empty, stay. Because love is tested in the waiting, and faith grows in the silence.

Saint Teresa believed that the goal of prayer is not knowledge but transformation. The more you pray, the more you love. And the more you love, the more you become who God created you to be.

⌨ ᴛʸᵖⁱⁿᵍ ᴏᵘᵗ ᵒᶠ ᵗʰᵉ ʙˡᵘᵉ ᵈᵃʳᵉᵐ ᵐᵘˢⁱᶜ ᵇˡᵒᵍ

Traces of courage, silence, and sacrifice—this is Saints.

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Mutual love can transform the world and make it reflect God’s plan.

Be Transformed by God’s Love

Through mutual love lived on a vast scale, wars, discrimination, bigotry, inequality and disputes will disappear. With the love of the Father and of Christ, and through our positive response, the world can be transformed according to the plan of God.

Chiara Lubich
Word of Life • August 1990

✝️ Prayer to Be Transformed by God’s Love


Heavenly Father, Your love has the power to change the world. Forgive us for the times we allowed division and prejudice to grow in our hearts. Thank You for calling us to mutual love that reflects Your plan. Help us to answer Your call and let Your love transform our communities. Amen.

A prayer a day, keeps the soul from drifting away

𝚃𝚢𝚙𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝙾𝚞𝚝 𝚘𝚏 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝙱𝚕𝚞𝚎 • 𝖽𝖺𝗋𝖾𝗆.𝗆𝗎𝗌𝗂𝖼.𝖻𝗅𝗈𝗀