The Dilemma of Turning 60

Beyond the number, sixty reveals a question no calendar can answer—what does it mean to stay truly alive?

International Day of Older Persons • October 1

A grandpa once told me, “Sixty is when people stop looking at your face and start counting your years.” For him, the age was both a gift and a burden.

At sixty, society calls you “older.” You gain benefits, respect, sometimes pity. To some, it feels like an award for survival. To others, it feels like the end of something.

He said the hardest part wasn’t the wrinkles or the slower steps. It was being treated as if his dreams had expired. Inside, he still wanted to laugh, work, and love—just like before.

But he also admitted there’s beauty in sixty. The lessons of loss and healing made him wiser. The weight of years turned into a kind of quiet strength, a treasure the young can’t rush to have.

So maybe the dilemma of turning sixty is this: it can scare you, it can free you. In the end, sixty is not the end of lifeit’s the start of a different kind of living.

Old • Darem Placer

ᴛʸᵖⁱⁿᵍ ᴏᵘᵗ ᵒᶠ ᵗʰᵉ ʙˡᵘᵉ ᵈᵃʳᵉᵐ ᵐᵘˢⁱᶜ ᵇˡᵒᵍ

Thoughts drift like clouds across a fading sky, until you find yourself in a quiet room—Alone with a Piano.

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The Gift of Having a Sister (Even When She’s Annoying)

Annoying at home, loyal outside—sisters carry a secret power that quietly shapes who you become.

Having a sister is like having your own mix of best friend and rival. She can make you smile one minute and make you mad the next.

Studies show that sisters help us grow in many ways. They teach us how to share, how to say sorry, and how to listen. Sometimes they tease, borrow your stuff without asking, or boss you around. It feels annoying—but it also teaches patience and understanding. Like arguing over who gets to use the tablet, or who gets the last sweet, creamy slice of egg pie on the table, those small moments secretly train you for bigger lessons in life.

But sisters are not just troublemakers. They are also safe to talk to when life feels heavy. They cheer you up when you’re sad and remind you that you’re not alone. Research also says kids with sisters often grow up more confident and caring, because they always have someone to practice kindness with.

That’s the secret of sisters: they can fight with you at home, but defend you in front of others. They can bug you every day, but still be the first one to comfort you. If you have a sister, treasure her—she’s already shaping you in ways you don’t even see.

All of that sounds real good… sigh …but I’ll never know. I don’t have a sister.

ᴛʸᵖⁱⁿᵍ ᴏᵘᵗ ᵒᶠ ᵗʰᵉ ʙˡᵘᵉ ᵈᵃʳᵉᵐ ᵐᵘˢⁱᶜ ᵇˡᵒᵍ