darem music blog – Page 13 – TYPiNG ouT oF THe BLue

Not all courage looks the same.

Some courage is loud.
It shouts.
It argues.
It wants to win right now.

Other courage is quiet.
It stays calm.
It slows down.
It keeps control.

Most people notice the loud kind first. When someone raises their voice or steps forward ready to fight, it looks brave. It looks strong. But many times, that is not courage. That is just reaction.

Quiet courage works differently. It does not rush. It does not prove anything. It holds itself together. Because it is silent, people often mistake it for weakness.

You see this clearly on the road.

One driver shouts, curses, or gets out of the car. People call that brave.

Another driver stays inside, slows down, and lets it pass. People call that a coward.

But reacting is easy. Anyone can lose their temper. Anyone can shout or threaten. That does not take strength. That takes impulse.

Being cool takes effort. It takes awareness. It takes discipline.

Being calm does not mean you are scared. It means you understand the situation and decide it is not worth turning a bad moment into a worse one.

Being cool is not pretending. It is not silence out of fear. It is a choice.

Here are simple ways to be cool in tense moments.

• Pause for a second. Even a short pause breaks the reaction.

• Breathe slowly. Calm the body first, and the mind follows.

• Ask one question. “What happens if I react right now?”

• Choose safety over pride. Pride can wait. Your life cannot.

Not every situation needs a response. Not every insult needs an answer. Some moments are won by walking away.

Staying cool is just as important. Being calm once is easy. Staying calm again and again takes practice.

When people say “be cool,” it should not sound like an order. And when people say “stay cool,” it should not sound like pressure. Both are reminders that control is already possible.

Everyone has coolness inside them. Sometimes it gets buried under stress, anger, or pressure. But it is there.

Being cool is strength without noise.

Staying cool is strength with consistency.

So the next time things heat up, ask yourself—

are you choosing to be cool,
and staying cool after that? 😎

⌨ ᴛʸᵖⁱⁿᵍ ᴏᵘᵗ ᵒᶠ ᵗʰᵉ ʙˡᵘᵉ ᵈᵃʳᵉᵐ ᵐᵘˢⁱᶜ ᵇˡᵒᵍ

***Merely Christmas • Darem Placer***
Out this season on **Bandcamp**.

Snow covered the ground as a young man climbed into a small open sleigh. A strong horse waited in front, shaking its head and making the bells on its harness ring brightly. He laughed, took the reins, and started riding across the snowy fields.

The sleigh moved fast, sliding smoothly over the snow. Cold air brushed against his face, but he didn’t mind. The sound of the bells and the rush of the ride made him feel alive. He called out happily as he went, watching the world blur into white shapes around him.

Later, he rode again—this time with friends. They squeezed into the sleigh, laughing as it started to move. The bells jingled louder with more weight, and the horse trotted proudly through the cold.

They joked with each other, told small stories, and enjoyed the wild speed of the ride. The sleigh bumped once and threw someone into the snow, and everyone, including the rider, burst into laughter.

The night ended with more jingling, more snow flying behind them, and a simple joy that came from nothing more than riding fast through winter’s cold.

Jingle Bells

Composed by James Lord Pierpont and published in 1857 under the title “One Horse Open Sleigh.”

⌨ ᴛʸᵖⁱⁿᵍ ᴏᵘᵗ ᵒᶠ ᵗʰᵉ ʙˡᵘᵉ ᵈᵃʳᵉᵐ ᵐᵘˢⁱᶜ ᵇˡᵒᵍ

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